Healing the Inner Child in Asian Americans

Providing Online Therapy in California and Oregon focusing on inner healing and maintaining as much harmony possible

Welcome, my name is Jeff.

If you’re an Asian American living in California or Oregon, you might have grown up feeling like you had to keep all your feelings to yourself. Maybe you also worry a lot about the future but couldn't share that with people, struggled with feelings you didn’t feel safe sharing to others, or even felt dismissed when you tried to open up to your parents. Over time, that can leave you feeling resentful, alone, pissed off, or like you have to pretend everything is “fine” even when it’s really not.

Even though you might feel angry you still have this desire and hope that your family would know you on a deeper level. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone—and you don’t have to sort through it by yourself.

When we work together, my goal is to create a space where you can slow down and make sense of your experiences. We’ll explore what happened in your past, how it affected you emotionally, and debunk the myths you believed were true. From there, we can work on building self-understanding, self-validation, and the confidence to show up more authentically to those you care about. For some people, this may eventually include making attempts at repairing or redefining relationships with family—but only when you feel ready.

Therapy isn’t a quick fix, and it doesn’t have to push you past what feels manageable to you. Instead, it’s a process of reconnecting with your values, learning to express yourself honestly, and feeling more at ease being who you truly are.

If you’re looking for a thoughtful, supportive space to begin that process, I’d be honored to work with you.

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Areas of Specialties

Providing professional therapy in California and Oregon for Asian American teens, adults, and families with depression, anxiety, and other emotional challenges. Below are areas that I specialize in to support healing, self-discovery, and relational growth.

Therapy for grief is helpful when you’ve lost a loved one. This is a major life transition that can feel overwhelming and lonely. Grief counseling services offers compassionate support to help you process the loss, cope through intense emotions, and find meaning through your healing. Whether your loss is recent or long ago, I’m here to walk with you.

Therapy for identity, whether related to culture, ethnicity, or family, can bring up deep questions and emotional stress. I provide affirming therapy for individuals want to explore their identity without the ‘outside noise’. Discover your authentic self in a safe, supportive environment.

Therapy for trauma in California and Oregon can help with lasting emotional effects. My trauma-informed therapy helps you safely process painful experiences, reduce triggers, and regain a sense of control. I provide individualized care to support lasting resiliency.

Therapy for Asian Americans in California and Oregon to help identify, become more comfortable with, and feel empowered to share feelings and emotions to improve their overall relationships.
I help Asian American men become more aligned with their true values, rather than be dragged around by their emotions.

Therapy for family conflicts can help increase emotional connection and lead to resiliency when faced with stress. My counseling services in California and Oregon help support families in building stronger communication skills, trust, and understanding. I work with parents and children to create healthier, more respectful relationships.